Why am I a photographer?

What does nostalgia mean to you?


It’s different for everyone.

For some, it’s a road trip—wheat fields swaying in the wind as you cruise down I-80. You know where you’re headed, but for a moment, it feels like anything is possible. Maybe you’ll pull over, lie in the fields, and count clouds. Red-winged blackbirds sing nearby, and peace feels real—tangible. You’re 21, your new love beside you who makes you feel like the world is wide open. Is this adulthood? Creating life on your own terms. Making memories without realizing how precious they’ll become.

For others, nostalgia lives in a quiet Sunday morning. You’re still in bed, careful not to disturb the tangle of limbs beside you—three other sets of feet, two of them tiny and round like little cannolis. Sunlight filters softly through a crack in the curtains. You take a moment to admire the warmth glowing on their skin. And suddenly, you’re back on that road trip at 21.

You glance at your partner’s face—now 30, marked with perfect little wrinkles etched by 12 years of laughter, tears, and life. It’s the same face you fell in love with, only richer, fuller, deeper. Two became four (plus five dogs). Your heart swells—until a cold nose nudges your leg, reminding you why you got up in the first place. The dogs know it’s time. And so, the day begins.

Look up “nostalgia,” and you’ll find: a deep longing for the past.

But that doesn’t quite capture it.

Nostalgia isn’t just missing a time in your life—it’s remembering it in vivid detail. The way things looked. The dreams you were chasing. The way it all felt.

That’s why I pick up my camera.

I’m not just freezing smiles. I’m capturing threads of nostalgia in real time — the kind you’ll want to revisit again and again. Because when the years pass, it won’t be about the perfect pose. It’ll be the way your son curled into your chest, or the way the light wrapped around your partner’s face when they laughed at something only you would understand.

So when you hear the word nostalgia, I hope you find your own definition. One that’s rooted in love, memory, and the beautiful mess of living. And if I’m lucky enough, maybe I’ll get to help you preserve a few of those moments — just as they were, and just as you’ll want to remember them.

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"I have known Nicole for many years now and first and foremost, she is a beautiful person inside and out. Her kindness radiates in every room she is in! When my now husband and I got engaged back in 2023, there was not a doubt or question in my mind who I wanted as our wedding photographer; Nicole Kilday!!!!! Prior to getting engaged, I would be on Instagram and Facebook truly just waiting for new sets of wedding photos from her to be posted on her professional pages. The candidness and realness of her photos were beyond beautiful and awe-filled. I knew that when I looked back on my future wedding photos, I wanted them to be real life moments that I could go back in time and look at through photos, and truly remember exactly how it felt to be in that moment. To make a long point short, Nicole’s art is the epitome of life, love, candidness, and real moments captured. On top of allllll of that, being in Nicole’s presence truly gave me a sense of calm and reassurance. I remember being so unbelievably calm the morning of my wedding, and I truly think I have Nicole to thank for alot of that. Whether you have known her for years or you are meeting her for the first time on your wedding day, I guarantee she will make you feel like you have someone in your corner to guide you and support you in any way possible throughout your wedding planning journey and day. Nicole is truly one of a kind, and I don’t say that lightly. She is passionate about what she does, and it is undoubtedly evident through the beautiful work she creates."

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Samantha & Mitch

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If you’re looking for someone who’s not only talented but also a blast to be around on your big day, this is your person. We’re beyond grateful.”

Dan & Breanne

“Thank you so much for capturing every special moment on our wedding day. The day was so busy that if it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t remember half of it! Beautifully done! I can’t stop looking at them!

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Tori & Cory

“Nicole was amazing!!!! Her and her second photographer were sweet and helpful from start to finish of this process! She eased my nerves and truly had my back. She treated me as a friend instead of just another client and it meant the world!! She went above and beyond by making sure I had enough to eat and drink throughout the day as well! She made sure on our rainy wedding day to have umbrellas (I forgot them) in order to make sure pictures happened as they should! Not sure what I would have done without her! The photos turned out amazing and she took care of every little thing I had concerns about to truly make sure I was happy! If I had to do it again.. I’d book her no doubt! My husband and I both love her.”

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