Wife / Mom / Artist / Dog Obsessed / Pro Crier

Nicole Kilday

Answers to Nicole, Cole, or Bill

Photography has been a generational gift. From birth to my chosen career, I’m not sure if I can remember a moment in life where a camera wasn’t present. My dad grew up with a homemade dark room in the basement, taking photographs with my grandfather and learning the ropes. I grew up with boxes of film camera gear; some, almost as old as my dad, while simultaneously sitting in his lap learning photoshop. We were a ‘never leave the camera behind’ sort of family.

Outside of my photography profession, I’m a full-time mom to my wild-childs Declan, Dayton and our furry German Shepherds, and wife to my amazing husband, Kyle. I’m a sucker for Sunday morning sunshine spilling in the windows while we’re all cozied up in bed, a fully packed house & messes made with love after a big family dinner, and the way a long road trip reminds you how soft the wheat fields look on a breezy day that you just want to take a nap in. Most days my mouth could make a sailor blush, but my eyes are never dry of empathetic tears on any given day. Cheese & German Shepherds are my love languages. 

Photography has been a way to bring my homemade happiness to life, while also feeding my obsessively nostalgic heart. Photography serves as a reminder of my purpose and the driving factor to remember all of life’s small & beautifully chaotic moments. What started out as a 2015 Christmas photo shared on Facebook, grew into this chosen passion career. So here I am, 10 years later (circa 2025) - thriving creating purposeful art that echoes all of my clients' own memories. Forever grateful to my special someone in Heaven who shared his passion of photography with each generation. It led me to so much love & friendship.

What does nostalgia mean to you? For me, it’s not just longing for the past—it’s remembering it in vivid detail. The way things looked. The way it felt. The dreams you were chasing. Maybe it’s a road trip with wheat fields swaying outside the window, or the weight of your little one curled into your chest on a Sunday morning. Nostalgia lives in those ordinary, fleeting moments we don’t realize are extraordinary until they’re gone.

That’s why I pick up my camera. I’m not here to freeze perfect smiles or stage Pinterest poses. I’m here to capture threads of nostalgia in real time—the light wrapping around your partner’s laugh, the tiny details that will matter more with age, the love that makes your story yours. These photos become the way you’ll remember, revisit, and pass it all on. This is why I photograph: to preserve the pieces of life that feel like home.

My Why

Nostalgia

— 2015: Took a Christmas photo that went "viral"
— Photographed my first wedding in 2016
— Got legal in 2018 & went full time in 2019
— Embraced the pandemic in 2020 and took my time learning & growing
— Photographed 42 weddings in 2021 & dreamt up My Whole Heart Collective
— Invited Ashley Bowling to partner up for My Whole Heart Collective
— Kicked @$$ with my Ashley Bowling and made bomb art until the present
— Reopened Nicole Kilday Photography in 2025 to realign my art, dreams, and goals with my present life

History

Glennon Doyle Lennon once said,

— "When someone asks why I cry so often, the answer is, 'For the same reason I laugh so often – because I'm paying attention.'"

“Hiring Nicole was the best decision we made for our wedding. Not only did we get the most incredible photos, but we got someone who truly cared about us, supported us every step of the way, and felt like family by the end of it. If you’re wondering if Nicole is the right fit—the answer is yes.”

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Chicago NW Suburbs Based Wedding, destination & Family Photographer